When he came he was so much consumed by revenge. he wanted his friend to suffer. His friend had kicked him out of joint business and left him with no money. After that, his wife and daughter suffered a lot. So many times, they did not have enough to eat or for the medicines. For fifteen years his life was stuck. He was dying every day. He hadn’t made any progress since then. He wondered about karma. That why no karma has come back on his friend yet and what bad he had done to face such a life.
After talking to him for a long time, I realized, his focus was too much on cursing his friend and seeing his friend’s ill fate that he had forgotten to focus on his own life. When he realized, he could move on. As his soon as he moved on, his financial situation started improving. He started focusing on creating his life rather seeing his friend destroyed. I do not want to talk about his friend because we did not focus there. Life has own way of handling things. But yes, as soon as he started focusing on his life and being happy, his things changed which were stuck for fifteen years. He realized and accepted that the only person standing in his way was himself.
In another scenario, there was a lady, she was always depressed. She was always troubled. In her mind, she was always calculating, who is what, what others are doing, how bad the society is, how bad others are, how they did not follow their conduct more she worried more she was unhappy. She did not know how to get out of this circle which she was stuck in her mind. When she realized this and started focusing on her happiness and how she could do better, she could change her life.
Always know that it’s in your hands to be happy. You are the in charge of your mind and life. If you really want to be happy, focus on that and you will be.
