The funniest thing in life is we all know these things and we keep fighting a war inside us to win over these emotions. I have not learned these things from anywhere else, I have learned these things at my own home and in the society I live in. We do not respect the people, their emotions and we worship God. I am not against anything, any ritual also but I feel sad, my heart cries when same people vouch for what all they have been doing for God. But I want to know, is there a God which is different than the people made by him. If there is a God, sitting up there, then we all are his children. How do parents feel when their children are hurt or even when their own children fight? They feel bad, their heart cries too and same way, when someone here is hurt God also cries. He cannot be made happy with the amount of sweets we offer or the money we offer, but when his children smile, he also smiles. How does a mother feel, when her baby is smiling, he also feels same. It does not matter how big or small is the gift, its about how much love we have. For a parent, when a child makes small painting and gifts it to his parents, its the most precious gift received by them. I have seen people putting such paintings on their walls in office, they are not perfect but they are perfect in own way, because they have so much of love…same way, only love is perfect, nothing else but love makes everything else also perfect….so if you want to worship God and you want to see him happy than love his people…thats the best gift you can give to god.