Human ego is there even when we are small. It is always there. It is very easy to ignite it and let it blow out of control. It can makes it’s presence felt in every situation. People can die and kill for it. We can see even small children stuck with ego. But somehow, we also train them to live with that.
A mother wants her child to finish milk, so she says finish it fast or you would lag behind. Your sibling would come first.
A father says to his son, if you will not listen to me, I will take your brother out.
So many times we train our kids on competition, rivalry and we do not realize we are triggering their ego. We are training them to live by ego.
So what do we have to do?
Train them on love.
Train them to love.
When they ask for something, ask them to ask with love.
When they are talking to someone, as them to talk with love.
Explain to them that when we love, how we feel.
Explain to them that without love how we feel. When they talk to someone with less love, explain to them how would they feel if someone talks to them without love. Keep explaining the importance of love to them. Use the word love maximum. Express your love to them multiple times a day. Do not give them your stress and frustrations. Give them your love. ( They will give back what they receive).
Train them that it is not about anything else. It is about love. Love only has real winners. love only creates the real bonds.
Do not worry about how would they face the world. Why because they will learn in their own ways even if the route would be harder and they will face some hardships. But their basic design and foundation will be based on love and righteousness.
Train them to love themselves. Train them to love this world. Train them to love everyone around. Train them to focus on love.
