We like this but we want things to change for us..it would be better if its slightly more, we don’t like something and we dont want it to exist however, what we need o change is the outlook not the things…everything is already perfect and even you are perfect. You become perfect when you want to become perfect as we all create a mirage of perfectionism and you deluge yourself in that. You get drowned and then complain. You do not do that..accept yourself first and then accept the existence. Get into harmony with this existence and stop complaining. Everything is already perfect…mountain and the sky, earth and the sea..people….their behavior..and you…instead of complaining just accept it.
Being complacent is different that accepting. Complacency is like quitting. You do not quit, you accept and put your efforts. Acceptance brings you into harmony with everything around you. Complaining brings stress and makes your life difficult as it will reflect upon you in different forms may be health wise, may be mentally etc. So accept the existence and accept yourself.