So many times we hold onto past so much that we do not realizing we are missing out on future because of that. We have limited space and time. When we spend that on past, we let go off the future. The moment we decide to let go off the past, we can create really an amazing life. One gentleman came over who had suffered losses in business, relationship and health few years back. He shared that he had been in mourning for a long time. Whose death was he mourning? My own life? I was this, I was that, I had that, this is how people used to love me and this is how it was destroyed. Then who did what, what went wrong, what right could have been done. But then one day when he woke up he realized he was getting older, time was moving but not his life. Because he was holding onto something which was gone long back. But in all that what he did not realize was he was losing all what he could gain while he had time. So he did not want to waste any other time and he really wanted to create a new life. He started a small business, worked hard, adopted a child, started a charity trust to support old people and after few years, he felt happiest. Because he spent his rest of the life in creating it rather than holding onto what was gone. The problem is we can never hold on to something because it is already gone.
I am so glad that one day he decided to move on. WE all need to know few things:
We all go through pain. We all go through situations. No one is spared even when God was born.
No two people will have same life. No point in comparing.
Two people will go through different situations at different point of time. We can never see the complete picture.
It is not about how many times we have fallen. It is about how many times we have made an effort to stand up again.
It si also about what we want for ourselves in life.
We can never decide for anyone else’s punishment in life. Revenge or a desire for others punishment is futile.
Focus on creating your life rather than destroying others life.
Create something which you will be proud of.
Staying in past never helps. Focusing on future would always help us.
