Most of the people we meet are full of big “I”. How? I am this, I have done this…I am so big..I can do this..and all you hear is different statements of I from them but do we really know what this “I” is? We are so much surrounded by this “I” and the big ego which this “I” creates inside us that we forget who we are and we keep going away from reality farther and farther. Further adding to this, This “I” never let us see what actually this “I” is. If we look at it in simple perspective, if we stay with “I”, we stay away from learning, stay away from people as we will have own standards and we are not ready to accept anything below those standards and when we would encounter someone who is of higher standards, we would again lose ours. We would keep undermining people under this self created “I”. This “I” would never let us come close to real people and we would keep feeling lonely as we would create a wall of “I” around us.
If we move to higher realms, there is no “I”. We all are created by existence and a part of existence. There is no difference between us and existence and if there is no difference between us and existence, how can there be any difference between you and “I”. This duality of existence dissolves as we dissolve “I”. Everyone and everything becomes one and then where is this “I” left?
You do not have to move to jungle to understand “I”..you just need to rise above “I” to understand yourself and reality. Once you dissolve into reality, you will be able to understand real “I”. Then you will be closer to people as they will become a part of you. You do not need standards to gauge people as they are a part of you..you just need to dissolve “I” and after that you will exist above everything. You will never be lonely after that.
