Ok today let’s have a look from different perspective. What do we do when we enter into a new relationship, let’s say, you just found a new buddy, or a new partner who might be your love interest…you cannot say that it is too soon to comment upon that, somewhere deep down we have that inkling that it is a new budding relationship and where it would head in the future. So once we realize we have a kind of something going on, what do we do, we send texts, we call them just to say hello, we express our feelings in many different ways, may be we send the cards or small notes and when we meet them in person we smile and we feel enlightened and we feel excited and happy. So that is how we handle when we enter into a new relationship.
So now let’s look at the most important relationship in life which we forget or we are never told that we have…since the time we are born we are told, this is your mother, father, brother, sister etc etc. No one comes and tells you, its you, this is what you have to become…so it’s a relationship which is never explored. So now we are establishing a new relationship in life, where we start connecting with the self. As we have already discussed above that how we nurture a new relationship, same way, we nurture the relationship with the self as this is a new relationship we are entering into. You can look into the mirror and tell yourself I love you…your innerself needs same nurturing, however, as you have been ignoring that, so it always keeps craving and then to satisfy those cravings, you start looking outside and then you get hurt and always feel dissatisfied because the actual need is to nurture the relationship with the self and until that is met..you can never feel complete..does not matter how good your other partner or companion is.
Once you find your true relationship and you nurture it and protect it, you will always feel complete and you will never have a need to depend on anyone. You feel incomplete because you have forgotten the relationship with the self. So establish the most important but forgotten relationship and you will see how strong you grow.
