Few days back one 54 yea gentleman called me up and said that he is unable to live with his wife as she wants to send his 85 years old mother to an old age home and he is not doing so for last 35 years, she is making her mother in laws and his life difficult and she nags all the time. He wants to get separated as he wants to take care of his mother in her hand days. He was discussing this with me, and was asking if he was doing right and told me that his children do not approve of him for this and that is why he is apprehensive. His children are living in Australia. I told him one thing that why does he need anyone’s approval, he is the one who is living this life, he is the one who has to go through the fights every day, no one else can relate with his agony then no one else has a right to comment upon him or decide for him. even if they are passing judgement, they are passing as per own limited knowledge and experience and they are implying themselves. He does not have to evaluate himself as per others perspective. Same way we do not have to worry about what others would think of us as everyone is shaped up by own experiences and lives. We have no right to judge anyone and we cannot judge ourselves on the basis of others. Do not judge people, and dont worry about what others would think of you. be free and let others be free.
