She wanted to study MBA and open her own small venture and her father wanted her to be a doctor. So while choosing mainstream of education after higher secondary, there was a tensed environment at home. She asked him, why do you want me to be a doctor? Finally one day her father said that I wanted to be one and my father did not allow me to be one. HE sent me to normal college, so that I can support him on shop later on. She was stunned to hear this and asked, do you want me to live with same thought process for whole life and do same to my child and create a never ending cycle? Finally he accepted and allowed his daughter to choose Commerce, so that she could do MBA later on.
She wanted to do a job and her husband wanted her to stay back at home and take care of everything. She told him that she would take care of everything but still she wanted do give it a try. She did against every opposition from her family and sisters and all. Everyone just wanted her to quit and she wondered why! It took more than a month for everything to settle down and everyone to accept that yes she was working! Gradually everything settled and she realized, it was the change people were resisting. Now, when change was the routine, it was a part of their lives too.
God gave us the power of free will, so that we can choose our path and live that. No angels, no higher power interferes in our free will. It is given to us for a purpose. We try to interfere in others free will. We feel what we think is right and everyone shall follow that. We also want others to think like what we are thinking so that we get an approval for what we are thinking. We do not need that. There is nothing right or wrong. Everyone is responsible for own life. What we think we create that. We shall allow everyone to create own life. When we do it for self we give that to others too. We fall into others creations and we want others to follow ours. Like that father was asking his girl to be a doctor like his father asked him to manage shop. We need to set ourselves free and create own life and we shall let others also create theirs. Let it be a free and happy world.
