She was having problem with anyone. Her friend told her you are too judgemental. For everything she had an opinion and if someone said something, she always said, can’t I give my honest opinion. Furthermore she said that, she was trying to help others in becoming better.
So finally, one day a friend asked, do not you know what’s your problem? You judge everyone, which makes others feel you feel superior. You criticise everyone. When someone shares how they feel, you are not ready to accept the facts. BEcause of this no one wants to be around you. Have you changed even after hearing about yourself? It just makes you feel bad. Then what makes you think that your feedback will change people? And who are you to decide who has what shortcomings? Everyone knows their own follies. It’s their own responsibility to improve and that too when they desire so.
She started crying and accepted that she needed help.
So her friend asked her, why are you so harsh? Why do you feel everyone has some problems and yes we all have problems. But then we have good things also. It is upto us what we look. But how do we start seeing the good things. So she had to start finding the beauty inside herself. When she realized she was focused on too much beauty around, she did not get time to look inside. She felt further depressed when she looked inside because she felt so negative about herself. Her friend consoled her saying that it was not his purpose. It was to help her seeing own beauty instead of the problems. She realized this beauty came from love and kindness. This beauty came from compassion and oneness. This beauty came from empathy. She had to start developing her inner beauty. Once she developed that, she felt peaceful. But it took an effort. After that, she felt that beauty in everything. She need not feel a need to criticise anyone. She did not feel any need to improve upon anyone. She could see the good things and also, she realized she was much more peaceful and happier. People were also more comfortable around her.
We all have this inner beauty. We just need to change the way we look at things and it will start radiating.
Be love, be peaceful, be happy.
