Met a lady. She was going through lots of problems in her married life. Her husband was supportive but he also supported his own family which is fair enough. However, they were against her. So she wanted a divorce and finally, she separated. He did not want a divorce. She separated, thinking, she could escape all that. So she could not escape problems. In fact, she realized, her problems increased. It was not about finances, she was working at a very good position with a very big MNC. But many other issues piled up and she realized, her life was better. She also missed her husband a lot as she realized how much he supported her. She had to go back, make peace with everyone and settle again.
Her father died when she was small. Her mother worked hard to raise her. But could not fulfil all her demands. She hated her mother as her mother was very strict to her. She met a guy at a very young age and in a few years against her mother wish she married him. She thought she would escape all her problems this way. But the problems at his home were much bigger. He turned out to be an alcoholic and abuser. Her problems exponentially increased. She had to take a divorce and make a fresh start. The financial problems started again and she had to solve them to find peace in life.
He was facing many problems with his wife, and she with his family. So they left country thinking they could make a fresh start. They faced many challenges, including own relationship issues and now, they felt the void too because there was no family to support them. They changed places so that they could escape problems but not for own growth.
One gentleman was in debts. He kept changing places to escape debts but kept piling new one everywhere. He kept running but could never escape his reality.
We can never escape problems. We are here to face challenges, learn from them and grow. In this life, we have to find the solution. So do not think of escaping. Think of finding the solution.
