Her mother conceived her before she got married. When Her father got to know who was in a relationship with her mother before getting married, he ended his relationship. Her mother blamed her for the loss and never treated her rightly. She grew up knowing love is bad. So she pushed away anything from anyone which made her felt loved.
But can we actually get away from love? How could she be healed? She spent many years avoiding love and I understand her childhood and all the adolescence, she was traumatised. Was she a victim of love? NO! No one is a victim of love. Did her mother loose the relationship because of her? No, he was not a good man. He ended because he just wanted to have fun and he was not ready for the responsibility. Why did her mother beat her? Because she could not handle her pain and she took it out on her. But then what would heal her? Love only can heal. Nothing else.
She was getting into relationships and stepping out. Because she could not trust anyone. So what healed her? Someone who could stay despite of her ignorance, her rudeness, her all the pain and everything. And there came someone one day after years. It healed everything. Who handled her pain as his own. He gave her so much love that she gave in!
We can never run away from love and we all want love. Simple reason is love is who we are. We are made up of love, for love and by love. (God is pure love too). We can never get away from love. Getting away from love is like leaving own existence behind. So accept love, heal with love and be love.
