When he was 6 years old, his mother left him and chose another man. His father became very rude to him and abusive too. If anything happened, his father would abuse him verbally or physically. He wanted to run away but he did not know where to go. He was bruised mentally, physically and emotionally. He was recovering physically but not mentally and emotionally. He was getting more and more bruised every time.
When he was 22, he left home as he could manage a small job to sustain himself. He continued studying and working and made a decent life for himself. But he still did not recover mentally and emotionally. He met a girl and got married. In the beginning, everything looked fine but gradually, all the old bruises which were never healed started coming out. On every small tiff, he would become very aggressive. His wife was scared of him. She left him one day but she loved him too much to divorce. She started staying separately. He also loved her a lot and did not want to lose her. He knew that if he wanted to have a life he would have to work on himself, rather than cursing her that she left him. Glad he knew that he had to work on himself. He contacted therapists, they helped him in recovering mentally and emotionally. His wife was always standing by his side. With her love and support, and his own effort, he felt very peaceful and relaxed.
Never ignore the emotions and incidents which are hurting you or your loved ones. Even if they happened years back. Never feel that where does it matter now, it happened years back. Always remember, an unhealed old wound is more dangerous than a fresh wound.
