One boy who is getting married soon came to meet. He was getting last minute jitters. He was nervous and getting depressed. He heard lots of things from his friends and saw his parents fights and many things. he felt all the worst was coming to him. He would lose his freedom, he would struggle between his mother and wife, his wife would keep shouting at him etc. And when the kids would happen, everything else will get over. Then he wouldn’t be able to sleep, he would be changing dirty diapers and he would hear them crying and breaking things, handling their tantrums.
Yes that’s all true! Who says all this will not happen. But what about the rest of the stuff?
You will get lot of love from kids and wife. You will always have someone to come back to. You will have someone, who will always take care of your choices. You will have someone who will walk by your side unconditionally. Someone who will hold your hand always. You will have someone, who will keep you above herself. The kids will come and will create all those things but then they will make you smile with their innocence. They will teach you how to give. They will tell you how much your parents have done for you. They will make your life fuller. And above all, they bring their own abundance.
And who says, without getting married, we will not have other problems? The life would be like a free bird always? The life will not throw other challenges?
So what shall we do?
Marriages just do not happen. We cannot walk the aisle with just rosy picture in mind or we cannot sit back having a bad picture in mind. We need to walk with a commitment. We need to set right intentions. We need to keep lots of patience. We need to have faith. We need to solve everything with love. Ego shall fly out of the window.
Marriages also give us peace and love. They also help us creating heaven on earth. They also help us in experiencing everything. So create them with love.
