We meet lots of people in life, with some we connect and with some we do not. When we connect with someone at that time we must have liked their one or other qualities which pulled us toward that person. Now when we come closer we start categorizing people. WE want them…but we want them at our terms and conditions. Not fair! There is no one in this world who does not have any shortcomings. No one is infallible and believe me you cannot change the person even for yourself also, does not matter how deep is the relation. IF that person himself or herself wants to change, its a different thing but if you force that person to change, that person would leave a part of himself behind and would always crave for that part. Some day sooner or later, he is going to get that part back and then you would not like that. We want lots of things in life and we want them on our terms and conditions. Life isn’t about terms and conditions because if you put terms and conditions, you are devoiding yourself of the beauty of the creation and the process. Everything and everyone comes in a package. You want to expand business, it would, but it would take away your free time, it would take away your time with the family. You can choose but you cannot choose on terms and conditions. You just have two options yes or no, there is no option of may be in life.
Why do we put conditions? Since the time we are born we live on conditions, if I do this I am good, if I am doing that, I am bad, what would others think of me and all the conditions. We lack few and we have few. We are unable to accept self also conditionally and same thing we impose on other. The qualities which we desire to have in a way which we lack and we desire to have, we are attracted to those. You need to accept everything and every being unconditionally and then you will see how beautiful and perfect everything is in its own way and the variety adds to the beauty of this creation. You need to first remove condition from self. After your relation with the self is unconditional, you would be able to give love to everyone unconditionally. Then you will realize the flow of love peace and harmony everywhere.
