Love is about being together in hearts.

Someone asked me, what is love in a relationship. Is it when you look at each other, you can see in eyes, is it caring for each other and each other’s emotions, is it holding hands, is it appreciating each other, is it thinking good of each other, is it about understanding each other etc?

All these things reflect love! And love is much more and deeper which we feel. It is about feeling that deep down the other person is a part of me, he/she is no different from me. Like we feel for our children. That is why we accept them the way they are, that is why we forgive them. that is why we talk good about them. That is why, we see them and our hearts are flooded with love. that is why when we see them, we do not see their flaws, we see them perfect. In our hearts, we desire their best. We just do things for them and we do not expect or what we expect is to see them happy.

Similarly, for our partners, we have those feelings in our hearts. We belong to each other in our hearts. It is not looked as a relationship of few years which has come together after 25 – 30 years of life. It is from the depth of souls which is coming together for lives and coming together for many lives. It is about not having an option to be with someone else. It is about you are my only option. It is about knowing that the other person is always there. It is about knowing I am always forgiven. It is about having that freedom to be forgiven. Love is about knowing that someone is with me in everything. I can fight any battle and I can win because I know he/she is with me. Life is beautiful because I know he/she is with me. If I fall sick, I know someone will take care of me. If I need something, it may not be the best but I know he/she will do his best for me. It is about knowing I feel the same way for her/him. It is about knowing that I can do anything for her/him. It is about fighting the whole world for each other. It is about knowing that even the whole world would be standing against me, still I would never be lonely. It is about having that faith. It is about having that security in hearts. Love is much more. It keeps us together. it keeps us peaceful. it keeps us happy. It keeps us get going. It keeps us in love and wanting to be in love more and more. It keeps us looking forward to life even if it is tough. It is to know, if I am worst of myself, I would still be loved and I would love the worst of the other person.

It is to know I love and I am being loved. It is to have that contentment of eternity. It makes us grateful because it’s there. Because it’s divine. It brings out the best in your. It brings out the happiest in you. It bring out the divine in you. It makes you giving. it makes you forgiving. It makes you more loving everyday.