Nothing is permanent in this world. The people and the things. What you have today will not be there and the people you are with will no longer be there. Everyone and everything comes for a purpose in our lives and once that purpose is completed, and they are no longer required, they move and leave a space for new things and new people so that your next lesson can be learned. So when you think you have lost something, then actually you have not lost anything, because things were there for a purpose and now they have gone for a purpose. Nothing belongs to you, everything is there for you. Amidst all this, there is only one thing which is stable and is always there which is you. You can loose anything and anyone but you cannot loose yourself and if you loose yourself, nothing would be left and after that no matters what you have and how valuable you feel you are, nothing would be of any value. I have met so many cases where people have committed suicide or have gone into severe depression because of losses in business. After the losses you are there but if you are not there, what would you do with those things, they are with you, your existence does not depend on them…now who are you..ofcourse you are the spark of God and once your awareness rises, you realise that you are the world and you are the creator and you are everything but what you are created of..you are made up of love, your character, your strength, your integrity and your beliefs…how strong you are when your strength is tested..how firmly you stand when its wavy… how faithful you are to yourself and to your commitments..how honest you are with life…if you loose yourself, nothing else would hold any value..so loose anything but yourself…