When we grow, our ideas, our perception everything grows. We look at the things the way we have learned. We build ideas and as soon as we see that, we start thinking that. We have lots of perceptions and we judge everything and every person with that. For example, if we are told that if someone is wearing expensive clothes, he must be rich, but he might have borrowed, if some one is not answering to provocations, he is timid but might be that he is a person of self belief and he does not need to prove himself to anyone….if someone is happy and smiling always he is a non serious type…but might be he is a happy persona nd has seen different aspects more than anyone else ..there are so many things. You see a flower and you think its beautiful, this color is nice, you are told that flowers are beautiful…you did not look at flower…you just implied your own perception on that..same way you did not meet the person, you just implied your thoughts on that and then you look for affirmation from external source as well..as you feel your judgement might be wrong. Few days back one person was arguing with the grocery seller and during the argument he said…you poor fellows have no honesty, you will cheat anyone, how can you say so.. honesty is not the virtue of only rich ones and who guarantees that they don’t cheat? A deceptive person thinks that everyone else is deceptive, a liar thinks everyone lies and a thief thinks everyone steals. Its not about the other person, its about you..you never gave a fair chance to the person. Whenever you look at something or meet someone, meet with the open mind..let the things take shape, do not evaluate, or else you would be devoid of getting to know the reality as you would see them as the way you are not the way they are.
