We all want to live the way we want but we do not do that..we are bounded by social norms..norms set by society, norms set by parents..norms set by family…however, have you ever realised that it is you, who has imposed this boundation…we seek every ones approval and become a bounded labour of these norms…we are unable to express own self….this is the biggest misery in life as we leave a suffocated life..we feel we are free but internally you are imprisoned ….
You need to find out what you are and love the way you are..people may proudly say that I am proud of myself but when asked they are unable to love self…even if I talk to one of the most mean person..he is unable to love himself…they cannot look into the mirror and say i love you….we all do mistakes but we should not do them intentionally….we have done the mistake..its fine..don’t repeat them..do not hurt anyone intentionally..we are unable to love ourselves as we may hide from others but we know what we have done…that’s why we are unable to love the self..
You need to find out what you are truly..love your self for what you are and express your real self..we try to please everyone and forget to please self..pleasing self doesnt mean you indulge in cruelty to others…pleasing the self means being happy and loving yourself…and expressing yourself..then only your soul would be free..
everyone is a super being, you just need to realize your own superiority…but in that process don’t negate others superiority…