I do not like it when someone comes and tells me that now they just have to live the life..they are waiting for things to get over..they have no other option….someone would say..I am just stuck in the situation, I cannot do anything….the things which we hear are many where most of the people have stopped living as they are just breathing..there is no excitement over life…and then life becomes a long ordeal which seems like would never end..why is it happening………so many would even commit suicide as they think committing suicide is the best way to end the ordeal…but the big question is why to let it become an ordeal…why do you think life is a punishment…why do we forget that we are given a free will..everything is decided but we are given a free will and believe me the ordeal ends when you decide…few days back I had a client, who was frustrated with his business, he wanted to be a computer engineer and because of his family pressure he had to join business and he could not even do business, when we were talking, I told him that he could pursue now but he said that now he is not connected with his profession..when we went little further, we realized that the frustration was coming from his thought that he had been unable to create his identity and do anything which would leave a mark…so after working on so many options we realized that he could expand business but for which also he thought he did not have enough resources…things worked out after he decided and now..he is expanding..he is a happy person where he has been able to enter into different markets and at home, everyone is appreciating..his frustration was not from business, generally we want many things and one of thing which we want is appreciation most…we feel whatever I am doing is being recognised and many a times we want that appreciation, without even doing our part..believe me things come along..everything falls into place if you start taking little steps..most of the time we create stupid excuses in our mind and dont take small steps..do not wait for big leap..you can take a big leap after taking small steps as you are more prepared then..you cannot write 12th exams immediately..you need to pass through all the classes..
Life is very beautiful…and you are here to live it, appreciate it, it comes into every shape and form, there is no moment as a bad or good..you just defined it that way..everything is already perfect..once I had a client who was frustrated because of his marital problems and had given up, would go home sit quietly and do nothing…then he decided to change the things as he realized his role…expressed himself..initially he had some retaliations but later on..things started changing..if you give up things would never change..and you start living into pieces, an incomplete life..but you need to keep yourself together..express your free will…once you are able to express your free will..you would always want to live..every day would be like a holiday where you would be excited to look forward to..you would not have to take a break to get away from life as you want to live it, so you would love living it..you need a break because you have stopped living it..so live it because you want to..
