He was going through financial problems his son was sick. Suddenly his servant asked for help because his son was also ill. He had limited money. He did not know whom to choose. Own son or his servant’s son. He had not paid servant’s salary also for last two months. His servant deserved that money and his son needed that money as he was in high fever all night.
His brother was cheating in business but his brother did not have any other source of income. They had been doing that business forever. Now in old age, on one side was his brother and his family and on one side it was business. He had given enough warnings but things did not change at that front. It was easy to divide the business but his brother was not capable of running business alone and he knew that friends are misguiding him. But still who has to be chosen? Brother or business?
She was getting a dream job offer in US but her mother asked her to stay back and get married. It would help her father’s business because the other partner was ready to invest money on this condition.
His wife was physically abusive and he wanted a divorce but he was scared that what would happen to his children after that. He was always fighting the dilemma that should he choose his own freedom or his children?
There could be many scenarios. Where there is no judgement of right and wrong. Every thing looks right and still we have to make a decision. It is easy when we have to choose between right and wrong but the decision is difficult when its between right and right. Who decides which one is more right. So here is the key which can help:
Close your eyes and think that after taking that decision how would you feel after 10 years.
Which decision makes you feel better about yourself.
Which decision gives you more peace.
Sometimes in life it is not about right and wrong, it is about what is more right, what is the priority at that time. We cannot have everything. We need to choose what we want to live with. It is about what gives you better feeling to live with.
In the first scenario the gentleman chose to give money to his servant because he decided that it was anyway his servant’s money as salary wasn’t paid. In the second one the gentleman chose business in the third one the girl chose job because as per her she would never be able to give herself in such marriage and in the last one the gentleman chose his own freedom. because he realized that by getting hit like this he was only spoiling children’s psychology forever. He was not helping them.
Do not judge someone else, do not judge yourself, do not be afraid of be judged, be happy with what you have chosen because you cannot have both the rights. So choose your right.
