Often this question arises that why we go through
problems. Someone who does not have a good relationship keeps asking, why he
does not have a good relationship. Why his relationship has failed. Someone who
has not been successful in life asks that why he is not successful. Sometimes
we feel envious of others because they have what we do not have and sometimes
we feel bad at own situation that what bad we have done to be in this
situation. However life happens to everyone and we all have to go through
challenges in one or other way. Still we have the power to create a life of our
dreams. We can create a relationship which we desire. We can write own success
story. We need to sit down and write every detail of what we want in life for
that. Often we are in a flow and because since childhood everything has been
happening on its own, we feel life also will happen on its own. WE fill up our
life with desires but we forget to fill up the plan for same. We leave those
desires upto the Universe and sometimes we do not even put desires. We just
keep living and feel bad about what is wrong. When we have not asked, how would
it be fulfilled? One mother asked her son what would you like to eat and he
said that anything would do. She got him some food and he started screaming.
Don’t you know what I like and she simply, I know what you like but you said
anything would do. He was shocked and quiet after that. Was it mother’s fault
or the child’s fault?
problems. Someone who does not have a good relationship keeps asking, why he
does not have a good relationship. Why his relationship has failed. Someone who
has not been successful in life asks that why he is not successful. Sometimes
we feel envious of others because they have what we do not have and sometimes
we feel bad at own situation that what bad we have done to be in this
situation. However life happens to everyone and we all have to go through
challenges in one or other way. Still we have the power to create a life of our
dreams. We can create a relationship which we desire. We can write own success
story. We need to sit down and write every detail of what we want in life for
that. Often we are in a flow and because since childhood everything has been
happening on its own, we feel life also will happen on its own. WE fill up our
life with desires but we forget to fill up the plan for same. We leave those
desires upto the Universe and sometimes we do not even put desires. We just
keep living and feel bad about what is wrong. When we have not asked, how would
it be fulfilled? One mother asked her son what would you like to eat and he
said that anything would do. She got him some food and he started screaming.
Don’t you know what I like and she simply, I know what you like but you said
anything would do. He was shocked and quiet after that. Was it mother’s fault
or the child’s fault?
Nothing happens on its own. If it happens on its
own, it would be unplanned and chaotic. It’s like when you plan, make a blue
print for a building, then it would come out beautifully. If you do not make in
a planned way, then it would be very messy. Similarly, in life we need to make
a blue print of everything we desire, including how we want to see ourselves,
how we want our relationships, what is success for us not in comparison with
others but what we truly desire to achieve, we can write down on paper or in
mind but with a clarity. Once the blue print is ready, we need to start
gathering necessary raw material and start constructing. Now, beautiful thing
about the blue print of life is, God himself brings the raw material and helps
us in constructing. We need to have the strong determination and desire to keep
constructing. It will not fail but the point is we need to keep constructing
till the last detail is done or if we stop before that, God would stop too. So
make a blue print of everything you desire and start creating your own life.
own, it would be unplanned and chaotic. It’s like when you plan, make a blue
print for a building, then it would come out beautifully. If you do not make in
a planned way, then it would be very messy. Similarly, in life we need to make
a blue print of everything we desire, including how we want to see ourselves,
how we want our relationships, what is success for us not in comparison with
others but what we truly desire to achieve, we can write down on paper or in
mind but with a clarity. Once the blue print is ready, we need to start
gathering necessary raw material and start constructing. Now, beautiful thing
about the blue print of life is, God himself brings the raw material and helps
us in constructing. We need to have the strong determination and desire to keep
constructing. It will not fail but the point is we need to keep constructing
till the last detail is done or if we stop before that, God would stop too. So
make a blue print of everything you desire and start creating your own life.
