One 20 years old boy was born in a super rich family. He never cared about exams, he never cared about elders and he never knew that he had any responsibility. His grandfather covered up for everything. He got married and he always blamed his wife for not taking care of him enough forgetting he had responsibility towards her too. They had tow children but nothing could teach him responsibility. Finally wife left home but it did not shake him up. He still kept finding faults in her. He never cared to visit his children too. One day he met his son and his son said that he did not know him. He was shocked. He went to fight with his wife but his son who was 14 years old now, stopped him at the door. He said that we have lived a life of a misery because of you. My mother never divorced you out of love but you always kept blaming her. I do not want to know you as my father and it is my decision not to recognize you. You cannot come into this house. This jolted him badly. He went to seek forgiveness and all the hatred came back. He tried finding all the lose ends and realized that all this while they had problems even in managing one time meal. He started hating himself but hatred over hatred can never help. He had to take action. He decided to fix things and started working on it. He kept working on his relation with his wife, tolerated all what she had to say for months and finally after 1 year she melted realizing he has actually changed. When she melted, even children started loving him and respecting him. He started asking everyone to live your life. Someone asked him what do you mean that and he said that life keeps happening to us and we keep happening along. However, when we wake up with our awareness, that is actually when we start living it. The person who lived with ego and hatred started teaching love to everyone. He thought he had everything but he realized he did not have anything. When he got his family back, he realized he had everything now and he was truly living his life now in awareness, valuing everything, loving every moment.
Everyone has own journey. Everyone has own life. But most of us life a life which is happening to us. Whatever is happening we keep living it, whether we accept it or not, we do not realize things, we do not think over things and we keep living it. Let’s say, if I hate someone why do i hate someone? Has that person done bad to me or is it my jealousy? If it is my jealousy then I should work on it. If I want something, why do I want it, do I need it? Start thinking, start observing, why things are happening the way they are happening? What life is trying to teach me, what is the purpose of my life, what am I gaining through my actions? Start thinking, start being aware and start taking lively steps. Take a decision that you would live every moment with full life into it.
