One young guy who was newly married was feeling stuck between his mother and wife. Sometimes if I think like a wife, I feel mad but if I think for a man, I feel it’s so terrible. Both relationships are important to a man and he gets stuck in a forever unsolvable tiff. If he chooses even the right one as per him the other one blames him of not being there.
So he asked how can he handle the situation at home because in just few months, he is feeling suffocated and his wife has already asked for the divorce. I asked him, every time they come to him for a solution what’s his intention?
He thought for a while and said my first thought is somehow, it should get off my back. I should be free. So the point is, you do not have an intention to solve it or to create harmony? So how would that happen? And as he is focused on this that he shall not be involved (Our mind does not register no) so he would be more and more involved. So the next question was, would that help? Yes it will and atleast we can have such intention. Lots of things are not in our hands. But atleast we can have a good intention and that should solve things for us.
Now, his next question was, should I keep good intentions for everyone in office too? Yes of course. It should solve that daily rivalry. We feel there is an increased rivalry but the truth is we have increased that in our mind. You create harmony in your intentions in office too and then see the change.
After one month, he came back as a happy man. He shared that it hasn’t resolved completely but things have started resolving both at office and home.
That’s the key for any solution in life.
When you fight, have an intention that shall solve with love.
When someone else is fighting have same intention.
When you want to grow in job, have an intention that I want to grow rather than someone else should stay behind me.
Have a day full of good intentions.
