Three people contacted for different problems. They looked different but the root cause appeared same. They all desired before giving. One gentleman was facing financial problems. His business was just not working. One lady was facing relationship problems and she was on the verge of divorce after one of marriage. One gentleman felt that no one helps him. He has been lonely in life and would always be.
The gentleman who was facing problems in his business got this business in legacy from his father. His focus was always on one thing, how can I take out more from the business. He never had an emotional connect with the business. he never thought how could I make my business grow. It was like he wanted to take out from the bowl but never wanted to put anything in the bowl. So the bowl became empty. It had no energy left to serve anyone. His problems started resolving, when he decided to serve his business. Instead of taking out, he shifted his focus to how can I spread it, make it grow. he started working from a different mindset and after one year, he could see business prospering.
The girl who was on the verge of divorce was crying that I had so many expectations from this guy and he has cheated me. How has he cheated you? He did not do what I had thought he would be doing. But then did you tell him before getting married that he has to do all these things for you? And the answer is no! Then how did he cheat you? Infact you have cheated him by not sharing what you desire before getting married. You assumed and he did not follow your assumptions. So is it your fault or his fault. Now, you need to ask yourself you want the marriage or the expectations. This guy would be same. can you live with him. If no, then leave, if yes then work on your marriage. She decided to work on marriage with a clear head. But after two months she decided that she cannot live like this. All what she has dreamed of since childhood cannot happen through this gentleman. She left the relationship but not with complaints this time. She said I have realized my mistake, I wanted too much and I cannot give anything here because I know I would never receive what I wanted.
Another gentleman who was feeling lonely, when we worked with him, we realized he expected too much but he was never ready to do anything for anyone. he was too calculative. But in Universal circle, we do not have to receive from whom we have given. Everyone represents God and when we are doing we do for God and God can serve us back from any channel. it could be same or different. When he realized this, he decided to change things. he started serving people without even looking at whom he was helping. Things changed and after few months he realized he was always helped. Even strangers would help him for no reason. He wondered that was I lonely because I desired too much without giving?
