He always kept finding faults in her. He always said that he was helping her improve. After two children and 7 years of marriage, she could no longer live with him. For everything she was feeling sorry she did wrong, she felt she could not do one thing right. She felt that she could no longer manage the house and children. However, she also knew more than her incapability, it was her husband’s constant criticism which he was not ready to accept. So finally she left him and filed for divorce. When she left and he could not manage his life without her, he realized how much she was doing all the time and how much she was trying to keep up with his expectations. Realizing this, made him slip into depression.
She kept finding faults in her domestic workers and no one stayed with her for more than few days. She would fight with her husband under work stress. He always told her that if she would keep them little motivated, they would stay longer. But she would not and when ever they left, she fought with her husband. HE filed for divorce saying, our relationship depends on having a maid who does not stay long enough!
His son hated him and finally left him because he was too critical. For everything he would pass judgements on him and incapable he was.
We cannot love or express love when we are finding faults. If we really care for the relationship, we need to nurture it with love. We need to accept the person the way he or she is including our servants. Everyone has own strengths and weaknesses. When we find faults it reflects our thought process rather than others capability. Accept your loved ones, help them in focusing on their strengths and nurture everything with love.
