Every time what we face in life gives us two choices, either to be bitter or better. If we decide to become better, we grow very fast in life. If we do not take any decision and we become bitter, we only spoil own life.
Few days back a gentleman came and he shared his story. HE shared that he was always bullied in class. He always got trolled by his friends. He has stopped trusting his friends. So he was losing his confidence and he did not want to be with anyone. Which was further aggravating the situation in his life. So one day when he was very depressed, his mom asked him, that’s what they all are thinking and may not even be thinking just doing. What does he think? He did not know! So he got the most important lesson of his life. What does he think.
After that whenever someone said something to him, he asked himself, what do I think? If someone said that you are a bad person, so he would ask himself, was he bad? Why did that person say this? Generally, it is someone’s own experience, past thought process and many things like that. He learned that he should trust himself more rather than unthoughtful words coming out of someone’s mouth just like that.
We all have to know few things:
We are more of what others are saying but we need to be more aware of what we are thinking.
What others are thinking or saying is their choice and what we think should be our choice.
Tell yourself all the good things you want to hear.
You are the most important person in your life and what you think is most important inside you. You have to make sure what you think is positive, loving, kind. If others have treated you badly does not mean that you treat yourself badly too by repeating those things again and again and hurting yourself so much. You must tell yourself all the loving things. What you are talking is most important because that will define your state of happiness, your health, your life. So let it be loving and kind.
