When I meet people who fight, I wonder why they are fighting. They want a recognition for what they have been doing in their lives and who wants recognition? Is it you or your ego? Its ego, which always wants to prove that I am better than you and that is why it keeps counting everything. It is so smart that it always works in a hidden manner. However, have you taken sometime out and thought over that why did you do all this what ever you have been doing? A lady makes home, takes care of her kids and husband, I am not undervaluing her efforts, she is doing for her family..not that particular gentleman, if she would have been married to someone else, she still would have been doing same…so you are doing everything ebcause you are in that relationship not because you are doing for that particular person…I saw a girl cribbing about her partner not taking care of her enough and who wanted to break up with her because all the time she was screaming with a loud voice that what all she had done for him..in this her ego must be telling her that she is better but while demeaning her partner she was losing the relationship…a relationship is like a flower which blossoms with delicate care and handling or else it withers…the beauty of this flower is that it blossoms every day….its in your hand that how much you care and nurture it…if you nurture it well..it will fragrate your life..if you would let it wither..your life would be devoid of the beauty and fragrance of love.
