So many things we can all learn from each other. Was at a friends place and her husband came to say hello. He looked at her and said she was looking happy! She gave a laugh and nodded. We chatted and he appreciated the tea and left. She was all smiles. When he came back again for some work, she told him, he walked in like sunshine. In two hours I felt they were flirting. They are married for 5 years. Have two children who were creating a continuous mess and she was sitting, fixing things in between and laughing. Honestly, she looked like she was newly in love. Yes! We do flirt around when we have just met and we leave that behind when we grow in the relationship. We stop appreciating each other, we stop making an effort to make each other feel better. But they looked like they just got married. So I asked her. She said that it takes an effort every day to be who you are with so many things going on every day and we have decided that we would remind each other of that. So he came and sat next to her and he was holding her hand. I looked at her and he laughed. He said what, we are legally married. Periods! Yes, they are and it’s a beautiful thing. We are just not trained enough. We are told to hide our emotions. And in all that what we should do and what we should not (I have no idea who wrote those rulebooks) we forget that we need love and we need to give love. Shall I look at all this as PDA? No, they are just being themselves. They are married and they love each other. They have kids and responsibilities and they are doing everything with love.
I just love both of them. I see them smiling and happy. Do they look like movie stars? No! They just look like we all do but when you look at them, you know the love.
Whether you are married for 10 years or 1 year or 50 years, do not stop loving each other. Everyday is a new day, every phase is a new phase, and it is your life. It is upto you, how loving you want to make it. Fill it up with love. Fill it up with lots of happiness.
