she never argued but their fights never stopped. She would just sit silently. Everyone cursed her husband. He just kept saying that it is not what it looks like. Their family members tried a lot but it did not solve. Her husband kept saying, she keeps cursing me. But she never said a word. When asked, now, he wants to control what I am thinking which even I can’t control.
When ever there was an argument, she was silent from outside but inside, she was fighting stronger than the opponent. Now, it is about energy. She was contributing equal negative energy. How we are thinking and feeling generates a powerful magnetic field or energy around us. Whenever there is an argument, this energy needs love to douse the negative energy. When both the parties are in a negative mode, it’s like fire from both the sides. If there is a fire and no one to put water on, the house will burn down.
But I cannot control my thoughts, what shall I do. Fair enough!
We can’t control what we are thinking but then we can add positive thoughts.
Shift your focus. Start feeling grateful to God for solving everything. Start blessing the situation and the person. Start saying. God bless you. Start saying Thank you God. Start saying I love you. Start focusing on a bright situation full of light. Remove the ego from situation. Focus on love.
She followed and gradually things solved. Sometimes, they did not even fight. Their relationship improved. But she had to focus on love not the fight in her mind.!
Create a happy relationship.
