They were separated for a year. They had been married for 10 years. With two kids she was living separately. She had a good job and she was financially stable. Her husband thought that, she did not need him, that is why she did not come back. So her question was, so I shall come only if I need you. Periods! She always said that he wanted her to be dependent on her.
Deep down she wanted to be back. But when ever they met they just fought. So I asked him, if he also wanted to be back together and the answer was yes. But they both were unable to deal with the negativity piled up inside in last 10 years of marriage. However, by feel like this all the time, how could they come together and live together. The negativity was burning them alive.
Internally she committed to work on their marriage because deep down she knew they all (including children) wanted same. So she realized that she had to release all her negative emotions about her husband and all the experiences. They were unsolved but she had to overcome them. She started writing, how she wanted to feel. She started chanting in her mind, how she wanted her relation to be. She focused only on one thing that they wanted to be together. Things started healing. Even he started realising his mistakes and sought forgiveness. They came together finally!
Any situation:
Bring in love.
Set the right intentions to solve it with love.
Feel love (Even if you have to write it)
Create a better picture of same in your mind
Bless the person instead of cursing him/her. When the soul starts receiving blessings, it starts healing.
Leave your ego aside and start working on forgiveness.
