A gentleman was facing a unique problem in his office. He was a realtor and builder. He used to make houses and buildings on demand. He picked up a contract to make a house 2 years back, which he was supposed to complete in 6 months and it was not getting finished even after 2 years. He could not even ask for more money from the person who gave him the contract and it was turning a loss making thing for him. He did not know what to do. He called up and asked, how could it be solved? He did not know. Something or other keeps happening. They had a death in a family, he had a death in family, sometimes rain, sometimes they changed design, sometimes labor ran away, sometime, the supplier cheated and he wondered why all the problems were happening in this. Someone asked him to consult an astrologer and he organized a Havna. it progressed for a while but then halted again. He really did not know what to do. He had already invested lots of money in that. When he came for solution, I really did not know the solution. i had no idea of construction work. But he wanted a solution. Al I could do was, when we are too much focused on problem, it increases the problem. Whatever, we focus upon grows stronger in life. It becomes a vicious circle. We are stuck in a problem and we can’t think of solution because we are still in problem. More we think of being stuck, more stuck we get and probably this was happening to him. The only option is to start focusing on solution and start feeling that the problem is already resolved. That gentleman took a week’s holiday so that he could get his mind away from the problem. After that everyday he would take out one hour to think and feel only one thing that its already completed. Initially it was difficult for him, so he started writing. He would write that it is already completed and he defined his emotions how would he feel when it is already handed over to its owner. Which included willing labor, celebration after completion, holiday, receiving money and few more things. he would write atleast 12 points which made him feel it’s done. After 2 weeks he started feelings its getting completed instead of feeling that it is jinxed and would never happen. Within 3 months he could handover the completed house to its owner. most of things which he used to write happened, some he did and some happened on his own. He did not plan for the holiday but his aunt came from US and his family took him on a holiday. He was surprised that how it was happening but his focus was creating.
In reality our mind is creating every reality. We may or may not realize it. But when we start focusing and we start becoming aware of what is happening, we would be able to relate with the things more and more. We need to remember few things:
!. Whatever we focus upon grows stronger in life. So if we are focusing on problem, it would persist and if we start focusing on solution, solution will happen.
2. Any negativity would block it including fear.
3. feeling positive would always open more avenues.
4. Key to solving any problem is to feel it is already resolved whether it is personal or professional. Focus on having a good relationship and you will have one. Focus on having a perfect situation in office and you would see things falling into place.
