Complaints people have:
He did not call me anytime, if he was my friend he would have called me up
Why did she say this?
Why can’t children behave?
How could my wife talk to my friend (So friendly)
Why my colleagues are so bitchy?
Why people are so mean?
Why there is an inflation?
What is government doing?
Where is my tax money going?
Why my ex left me?
The list is endless.
We create reasons to be unhappy and we blame others for that. Because we feel our happiness depends on others and certain reasons. If people do not act as per our expectations and things do not happen as per that, we feel unhappy. Basically we want everyone and everything in this Universe to serve us the way we want. From certain people we know we have no control, so we do not realize our expectations and we stay calm but otherwise, we expect everyone to be the way we feel is right.
Someone’s right is someone else’s wrong. Like we want everyone to serve us, similarly everyone wants that. And that is why there is a pile up of anger and negativity. Above that, we do not know, that this is what we have been doing. We do not know what we want and that is why we are dissatisfied from every thing. Because the discontentment is coming from within. So what shall we do:
1. Gain clarity (What do you want)
2. Like you have a right to be served everyone else has a right to be served. That’s why Universe is serving everyone.
3. But everyone else cannot serve you. That is why Universe has created a free will.
4. We need to learn to respect free will.
5. Then how are we designing life? Universe will bring those people/events/resources as per you and others by aligning everything.
6. Focus on being happy rather than particular person/event/thing making you happy because in that case you would end up being unhappy always.
7. If you want money focus on having money rather than certain people making that for you.
8. If you want to have a happy relationship and a good partner focus in that rather than a particular person being with you.
9. Whatever we are doing is for the feeling which we get after that. So it can come from alternate source too.
10. Happiness is decided by you and you are the source. If you would make someone else source of it, you would be happy at some time certainly.
11. If you have negativity/fear/guilt/anger, it will be replicated back in your life.
12. Universe is not differentiating between you and someone else. So if you desire bad for others, you are desiring it for yourself actually.
13. More you would stay in love for yourself and others, more you would be cleansing yourself.
14. Go and help people. Give! Give! Give! Give as much as you can and give unconditionally. It would cleanse you of any kind of malice and replace you with a better you always.
15. No one and nothing would like to come to an unhappy person. When you are happy all good things and good people start coming to you.
16. Fix up yourself and your life will get fixed too.
Be love! Be kind! Be happy! Be abundant!
