The gentleman was entering for the meeting with an investor and he was really nervous. He wondered if it would be done or not. His company’s future and his future he felt was dependent on the success of this meeting. he was getting all the thoughts of what would happen, if they would say no. How would he pay back loans etc. So he called up just five minutes before entering into the meeting. He asked for one Mantra to handle his nervousness and the meeting successfully. So I asked him, what is the outcome you desire? He said ofcourse I want it to be done but what if? So he was more focusing on the failure outcome. So when we talked, he was able to focus on the outcome he wanted and when he entered into the meeting, he was much relaxed and confident. When he came out, he was happiest as he had bagged the deal.
It is like we say, that animals can sense our energy, if we are scared they know and they try to dominate and if we are not, they get dominated. That’s how energy works in every case. If we are scared, the energy can sense the fear and it starts controlling us, If we are not, it gets controlled.
Another aspect to this is, Universe is simply responding to our feelings. If we are scared, it will give back same. When we are focused on the process, we get nervous, insecure etc and Universe will replicate events and people, which will give us more reasons to be like that, thus expanding our experience. Now, if we can hold on to the thought and feeling of outcome achieved, it will start replicating for us.
Often when we are focused on the process rather than the outcome, we feel that this is the only way we can achieve. But behind every thing there are thousands of things working out which we have no idea about. So we need to let Universe work on it’s things but what we can focus upon is what we desire and how would we feel when it’s achieved, that will sort things better for us.
So before everything ask yourself: What is the outcome I want?
Whether it’s for daily routine, a simple task like cooking or meeting, going for fun, watching a movie, travelling, anything and everything. This will start giving a better direction to the life.
