Now the big question is are we actually what we see? I—You—–He—She————
As Bhagwad Gita said, this is just a body where the soul is residing and once the body journey is completed…the soul finds another body.
You go and watch a movie and sometimes, you get so involved with the character of the movie that you start crying, why, because you feel the pain which the hero is feeling is your pain. Same way, you are identifying with this body so much that you think it is you and you start feeling pain. However, the pain of the character is not your pain.
Whatever are the relations we have are the extensions of this body, from inside everyone has same consciousness. If you realize this, everyone would become equal with you. There would be no fear of Boss or you will not be the boss of the peon. Everyone is working and playing a role and so are you, if everyone is working, who is small or who is big. If everyone is playing the role, then who is your son or who is your brothers son.
You are not this body, you are the soul, you are just living in this body, whatever is happening, the pain, the happiness everything is happening to this body not to you, if you will understand this thing, you would never have any suffering and you would know the real you….find the real you and do not depend on this body…
Everything is an illusion….just remember this, to keep you busy and when the illusion breaks, you realize, it is nothing left there. Life is nothing.