We all want to love the people around us and we also want to give all the love to the people who are not directly related to us. We have been taught to give unconditional love..but as we are unable to give unconditional love we feel these things are for books and not for us. This is the funniest thing I find, whatever we feel is not possible for us to follow, we feel it’s for books. However, we never try to understand that why have we failed. It such a noble intention to spread love. The truth is..we can give only what we have, we cannot give what we don’t have. If we do not have enough love for ourselves, we cannot love anyone else too, that’s why we fail to give unconditional love. We give with the expectation of returns atleast with the intention of receiving back love atleast if not anything else. Expectations , even if it is of love adulterates love, it surrounds love with fears, insecurities and many negative emotions like this. So to give love to anyone else, first we should have love for ourselves, and if everyone needs love, from where do we get for ourselves, it’s simple, explore the love from inside or else the love of entire world would be insufficient for you. When you explore the love inside you, then you will be able to spread same love. Start loving yourself for what you are and what you are not, do not pt conditions on self, accept yourself to accept everyone else too. Generally, the thing which we lack inside, we impose on others too, however, if we find the completeness within, we will be able to find the completeness outside too. So to spread love around you, explore the love inside you.
