Once I was sitting with a client who thought he was a victim of life and he has been suffering so much in life. He was a doctor still had career issues even after completing senior residency. His wife was not living with him and he could not meet his son. He had already pushed away his parents. I asked him what is the purpose, why are you here and why are you living. He said Sheetal, having purpose and all are very bookish things and he needs to have something else in life to drive him. Well, if you do not why you are doing what you are doing, you will always feel pain of doing it. It is always painful because every second there is a death and birth. Like in this Universe every second there is a death and birth, same way in your body which is Universe too, every second there is a death and birth. New cells are generated and old cells die. Now as Universe has a purpose, to support life, to increase the level of consciousness, this body also has a purpose. If you do not know the purpose, you will always ask the death you are experiencing every moment and you will suffer. Pain is inevitable but suffering is your choice. You can choose not to suffer and once you realise you have chosen this pain, it empowers you instead of making you suffer. Once you know why you are going through this pain you will not suffer as that purpose is more important than pain. A mother is in pain while delivering a baby but she does not suffer. She is happy as she knows she is creating a new life. If you know the purpose, you will never suffer. Find the purpose of life, so that you stop suffering from life.
