Few days back, I met a person, who did not believe that he could clear the DM exam, now I do not have much idea about Medical Field, however, I have some doctor friends and it appears to be the highest qualification in that field, while talking to him, I told him that one of my other friends also is appearing for same, and he said that it is impossible to get that seat in first trial and gave me many reasons. I tried explaining that it depends on her capabilities and her belief and found that he was clouded with own disbelief so I quit. Now she is studying DM and after 3 trials, he is still trying. He lacked self belief and he imposed on her too. Self beliefs are based on our experiences and self evaluation, lots of times people are over confident, that is also because of same. However, when you lack self belief, you impose your insecurities on others too. The funny thing is you feel contended if the person who is known to you in your immediate circle is unable to do but out of 7 billion people on this earth, if rest 1 billion are able to do, does not matter…
So many times, when a child is being criticized all the time or most of the times, he grows up to be a person who lacks self belief because if his parents did not show faith in him while growing up whom he had idealized, he would also do same for others, being critical of others. He thinks that he cannot do and others cannot do too. He thinks, he is bad and everyone else is judging him as he is judging everyone else too. Now he has his insecurities and he impose same on others. When you do not have faith in others, you live a tormented life as you would always feel that people are there to pick at you. However, you can change this, you need to start believing in self, if think you can do it, you would be able to do it as you subconscious will give you power to overcome any incapabilities and you will put your earnest efforts and so many times, you wonder when things happen that did I do it? Is it me? Because you have done something which you think you could not do. We have a bad habit, we compare ourselves a lot with others because we do not believe in self for lots of things and we live a discontended life. To come out of that discontentment, you need to start believing in self. There is no one in this world, who has everything , so even you cannot have everything, however, everyone got something, you need to find your something. Once you start believing, you would see, how beautiful this world is, as you would be able to believe in others too.
