One 25 year old came to me who wanted to turn around his life. He shared a lot about what he wants to be in his life and when ever I asked him that what does he feel about himself currently and explained him is this is how you are feeling he was in denial mode. He never accepted. Finally he realised ..then few days back he called up and accepted everything. I kept explaining him, if you want to change something now then you have to first know what you are today. If you want to change your thoughts too, first of all you have to know how you are thinking today or else how would you know what has to be changed. You cannot bring any change without knowing what has to be changed. Most of the times we struggle between how we are and how we should be or we want to be. To others we try to project an image of how we want to be but everyone can see what you really are. Its our unawareness that we are unable to see what others can see though its about us. Somewhere I read that when we see a mirror we think we have seen ourselves but how I wish that was true and so easy and I agree so much with this fact. When we look into the mirror we just look at our body not at ourselves and thats why we are so attached to our body. You can be whatever you want to be but first of all you have to know what you are and why you want what you want. After having a clarity about your thoughts then only you can move ahaed. Accept yourself without being judgemental and understand if you are unable to accept then how can you expect others to accept you. One person came to me and said he wants to do so many thing and then said I do not want a fame, I hadnt asked him if he was looking for fame but first thing I asked him, if you want fame then why are you not accepting it, what is wrong in that and then he accepted. Accept yourself without judging and then accept your desires of moving ahead just make sure your intentions are pure and you do not want to hurt anyone else. Move ahaed in life with an open heart and intentios of love, everything will support you.
