WE look at something and we start thinking and then we start comparing and when ever we think we move to past…lets take one smallest of the example..you go to a park and you look at the rose..as soon as you look at it you think its beautiful, you appreciate its color, the fragrance and everything and how do you know it has a beautiful color, how do you know it has a nice fragrance, you are deriving that out of your past experiences. Whatever thought you have they are from your past and you are adding new thoughts. Now amidst all this you forget to watch…you would say you are watching but now let’s think….are you watching or thinking..brain is equipped to do only one thing at a time and when you are thinking it cannot watch..it may see not watch…when you watch without thoughts, you would connect with the true nature of the rose…you would become a part of the rose and then you would realise the real beauty of rose …same way whenever we meet someone..we start implying our thoughts instead of just watching the person…now where have you met the real person..you just gauged your thoughts again, so many times you like to affirm your thoughts and so many times reaffirm saying i was so right…where did you meet the person..you just expanded your thoughts..whenever you have a problem and you are unable to find a solution, the reason is you have been busy expanding your thoughts instead of looking at problem..if you would have left your thoughts aside you would not have overlooked any facts of the problem..you want to know the Universe or anything..stop thinking..just become a part of it because if you think you cannot become apart of it and if you want to understand something you need to become a part of it..without that you will never understand the true nature of anything..you need to lose your existence to understand …..or else you would always be devoid of reality, you would never reach even closer to reality..