She was separated for 10 years and her divorce case was going on for 8 years. She was furious. She was married for 5 years for that. She was very firm on this. He wasted so many years of my life, he has money but that doesn’t mean he is impune to law. I will make sure he is punished. I will never give up!
Fair enough. But then how many years do you want to waste yourself? 10 years you have wasted, you could have moved on! And created a life for yourself in 10 years. Your son grew up in these 10 years and you missed out on his childhood. He also grew up as a bitter human being, who hates his parents. And how did your ex-husband waste your five years? You both decided to get married and it did not work out. If there is a mess in your life, there is a mess in his life too. He also has spent 10 years in court and he also has become a childless father! Maybe he is also saying the same thing. You have wasted 15 years of his life. That was the moment of truth for her and she decided to move on. She closed her case and joined her father’s business. She started spending time with her son and then she felt that she herself wasted her life. She was crying inconsolably that if I had forgiven him on time, I would not have wasted so much time in life. But again then she was doing the same mistake. Now, it was her turn to forgive herself. Which was equally important or else she would be hurting herself more.
His brother kicked him out of the family business which was worth crores. His brother paid him only 10 lakh rs. He went to his wife and told her, we are hurt and cheated. I have two options, I sit and cry and curse my brother or I move on and create a better life. I forgive him and let his Karma decide so that I can focus on my work. In the first case, we may feel that our ego is nurtured but life will be poorer and in the second case, we will be able to overcome everything eventually and have a good life. She supported him and said let’s forgive! They both worked hard and started an online consulting and it flourished.
So the decision is yours!
