One 20 years old girl was getting married and on the day of wedding her fiance ended the alliance. The reason stated was that he did not like the girl and he was forcefully choosing her. He left for someone else but the girl was left with shattered heart and confidence. He did not tell the truth that he was in love with someone else, they pointed out flaws in the girl which damaged herself confidence. The girl started cursing herself, telling herself all the bad things about how she looked, her body and her education. She felt that she did not deserve anything good in life. After that her father tried arranging few more alliances for her but they did not work out. Finally she started feeling like she was good for nothing and she did not deserve anything good. That included her job too. She was in a high paying job but her office asked her to leave and she was sitting in a corner wondering where was she standing in her life. After few months of self pity, she decided to take charge of her life. She took up a small job and started working on her mind. She started telling herself that she deserved the best, she is beautiful and she deserves to be loved. She started sharing love open heartedly. She embraced small children, old and many other needies. They all started telling her she is so beautiful. She started feeling same and after one year, she started getting many proposals.If she were in a restaurant, people would approach her and ask her if they could sit with her. She wondered that she is the same person and now everyone wants to be with her. But the question is was she actually the same person? No she was not! Her body might be same, but her energy was different, her feelings were different and her thought process was different which had made her a different person all together. She turned into whatever she thought she was and now she was again turning into whatever she is thinking she is.
That is the biggest lesson we all have to learn. We are whatever we think we are. Like Buddha said you are what you think. We all are energy beings. Our thoughts create emotions and our emotions manage our energy. It increases, decreases, blocks, purifies and does everything with our energy. Subconsciously we are aware of this. When we feel low, we say today energy is low, when we are happy, people around say, you seem to be high in energy and many things like this. So in order to keep energy positive and beautiful, we need to take charge of what we are thinking and that would start changing our energy means us. So always tell yourself:
I am Happy
I am beautiful
I am healthy
I am love, I give love and I am loved
I am valued
I give respect and I receive respect
DON’T ever tell things other wise like no one loves me etc.
If you are working on something, tell yourself you deserve it and you will make it instead of telling yourself I might not or things like that.
