One gentleman came to meet few days back. He was going through some financial problems. He said that i want some money but by working. I am not money minded. This alerted my mind. What kind of relationship does he have with money? When we ask such a question, it means we do have some negative conditioning for money. So here are the general things which I hear about money:
Money is the root of all evils
Money spoils people
If I want money I am bad
People can do anything (which means all bad things) for money
No one can become rich by being good and honest (They must have done something bad or corrupt)
I will be bad, if I ask for money.
How these things create conflicts:
Money is evil and I am divine, so why should money come to me, money spoils people and I am not spoiled so in our mind we do not have a relationship with money, People can do anything but I will not so again there is a conflict, I will be bad, but I want to be good so I cannot desire money………
We want money but we talk bad about money. Now if money is a person and we talk bad about him or think bad of him, why would he come to us. We want whole world to think good of us even the strangers but something we want most, we have such negative conditioning. So what shall we do:
Here is a test:
When we think of money what is our first feeling (So many times its insecurity, bills, lack)
When we think of extreme abundance what is our feeling ( Lots of time people are blank)]
Who is the first person we think of, when we think of someone spending money
What is our best memory with money
What do we think about money
If there is a feeling of lack, we would replicate that feeling in life which means more events making us feel lack.
If we cannot imagine abundance, how would we have it?
When we think of a person who is in extreme abundance, and we have a negative image of that person, we create a negative image of money in our mind.
If our memories are of lack, the we would always have problem with money
When we think of money, if we are greedy or loving or generous..that would define our relationship with money.
If answer to these questions are negative then we would always have a negative relationships with money. So create a positive and happy relationship with money. make a positive image of money in mind. Invite money, love money, be grateful for it.
