We are so much trained to be unhappy in this world that we find excuse to be unhappy. We want to be happy but we are conditioned to be unhappy. If someone is sad, we like to be sad along with him to show and prove that I am a good human being and I am with you in your sadness. Give me a break…do you think by becoming sad along with that person, are you helping him or actually making his situation worse…if someone loses a job and is sad..say lets see what next we can do..like finding new one..what options do you have..instead of saying I know how you must be feeling..it must be scaring you and making thoughts even worse for the poor person..if someone has lost some loved one…after listening to him and crying with him…u can say…chal yaar hota hai…chalte hain…help him in coming out of that..we are just conditioned to become unhappy every now and then….if someone is sad..take him to happiness…we are born to be happy and to flow with love but we change that with our stupid thoughts and beliefs..we feel if I am happy it is a crime and we feel we have no right to be happy. So we try to become unhappy with all the excuses we can.
If someone is unhappy, take him to happiness and do not wait for someone else to come and make you happy. Do not find excuses or reasons to be unhappy. Just be happy with in yourself and take others out of slumber too. We are asked to sympathise so that we do not hurt not that we keep making them further sad…listen/hear the reason n take them out..not that start crying yourself..if I really love someone I would take that person to happiness not that I would get sad along too…
