Everyone gives us few instructions and tells us how we shall wake up, be, how our body should be, how we shall walk, live, work eat, wear clothes and even breathe. How we shall bring up our children, how we shall train them and how we shall judge others. On the basis of that they keep giving us marks and decide if we are good and bad. That may change also with time. They want to think good of us and that’s why they keep imposing those standards on us. Everyone is pressurizing and then they also get pressurized by others.
I wonder, so that others can think good of me, how far I have to travel. How much pressure I have to take on my head. How much I have to change myself and how much I have to kill myself. I have to stop doing my work otherwise people will feel offended that I have not attended to them, I have to stop eating so that others can feel that I look beautiful to others and as per them to further others, I have to even scold my little child so that others find him well mannered, I have to over work, so that others can be happy, I have to wear clothes of someone else’s choice so that they can find me cultured , I have to do a job of their choice, so that they feel respected in society and the list is never ending.
But made me wonder, why? So that they can call me good on the name of being my well wisher and loved ones and do they? Still All I hear is how bad I am, how I can improve. So one day when I could not take the pressure, I gave myself the most beautiful gift of freedom. I do not allow anyone to pressurize me. I do not allow anyone to judge me. The point is go judge yourself and that is your choice. I am free and flying in a free sky. I can be who I want to be. You can be what you want to be. My flight depends on my wings not on your judgement. I am born free and going to live a free life. I can be me not what you want to think of me and makes me wonder do you think? Do you actually think? Because if anyone is thinking, they will not do anything to anyone. They also will simply be!
Loving someone shall not depend on how they are as per us, it only depends on our acceptance of the person. So are we ready to love a free person and set everyone free?
