So many time we are stuck in a situation where we are unable to decide for self and may be somewhere we want that things should just happen because we are unable to take the onus of the decision. We just cant think independently, because we are afraid to fail and that is also the reason that we are unable to choose a new path. We just want tried and tested formulas and if something goes amiss we should know whom we need to blame.
Come on, take a break, if everyone would have thought this way, there would not have been any new path discovered, no one would have dared to pave new paths and every tried and tested path would have been so crowded that you would not have been able to step on it.
Start deciding for yourself, you will feel less miserable and more free, take the responsibility of self and the decision, if it fails, so what, we all do mistakes and we all have right to learn from mistakes, just because mistakes happen does not mean we are losers, we are losers if we stop trying out and keep sitting. We are losers if we become spectators and stop participating.
When you are stuck..take a deep breath decide for yourself and be committed …and dont hesitate in making amendments if needed, dont let your ego interfere because ego will not let you see things clearly. When you decide, you will not feel miserable any more, and dont alter the decision because you want to give up alter if you think its wrong, it is very important.
