One 55 years old gentleman was very angry at life. He said that I have faced so many challenges and no one helped me. I have done all by myself. He did not keep his relationship with any friend or family member. He said that I have managed all alone and I am happy like this. Fair enough!
However, why are you mad at life?
Don’t you think the problems which I call as challenges you are cursing have made you what you are?
If they were so bad why are you talking about those things? You are proud of having faced them and overcoming them. That’s why you are saying I faced so many problems.
What about the Universe who meticulously placed those challenges for you, so that you could learn to grow.
Can there be a hero in a movie if there was no villain? A hero rose because there was some one who was bad.
You would have been nothing if you would not have faced those challenges. So why are you so angry? I understand we do get tired! But to stay away from everything like this? Hurting self over and over again!
I remember someone saying, I am thankful to those who said no to me because of them, I learned to do things myself.
We all face challenges and I am proud of facing mine. However, while being proud of them I also understand that everyone is facing some challenges and they are trying to do their best. It helps me in understanding them better. I did my best and I am still doing my best. That’s what makes me me! But to talk bad about life is like insulting my own life. I am grateful to everything I have received. Good or bad is my perception. What looks bad today could be my biggest blessing tomorrow. Why should I judge? I am simply sailing across doing my best!
So accept all the challenges also with a grateful heart. The challenge might be an opportunity to something we do not know yet.
