He had extra marital relationship and she forgave him. Then he had another, this time she could not forgive but she was in the relationship. He was blaming her for the fall in relationship. She was busy with kids, did not pay attention to him etc.
His father wanted him to join family business and he did not. But he decided to be in the one. He kept blaming his father for his trap. Because he was feeling so trapped, he could not even do good in business. Finally his father asked him why did you join business? He cried and said that he thought his father would give him money to start something of his own. Hoping this he joined. But isn’t this his own? He had no answer? So his father asked, did you have in mind what that something was and he did not have any answer. He had never planned any business, so how would he get money for that. As he had no other plans he joined his father in his business. But why a blame?
He was from a small village and could not speak a fluent English. But he wanted a good job and he realized for that he had to work on it. So he started working hard on his communication skills. He worked hard for few years and eventually, when he spoke people started asking him, where did he grew up? Did he go to some convent school etc?
Her husband left her for someone else and she had to raise two kids. HE did not give her a penny and she did not have money to fight even the case in the court. She had to take a decision whether to focus her energy on fighting the case or raise her kids. She decided later. She started a food joint from home and in few years it had become a successful catering business. I asked her, if she never blamed anyone? She started laughing, what would I get out of that? In fact it may take my energy. I am committed for my kids and this is who i am.
YES! You shall be able to say it proudly that this is who I am! Decide what you want, who you want to be and then say it, this is who i am!
