One lady was in depression. I asked her for the reason and she said that when she got married, she was full of life, innocent, cared about everyone. But she suffered in the family. Her sister in law was always manipulating against her. Finally, after three years, she had to take the same route to survive. She survived and they got separated and she got a better life. But what she regret was that she had to do a few things which she did not think she would ever do in her life. She was crying that she became her worst self to survive.
One gentleman shared a similar story. He shared that a few years back, he was very innocent, kind, loving man. he trusted everyone and wanted best for everyone. he went through so much trouble during divorce. His wife implicated him in false cases and he was harassed. he was out of cases but he no longer felt so good about himself. He said that he missed his older self and he could never be same even if he desired to. He said that he never did any bad to anyone, even after getting implicated in false cases but he had become hard after that.
On the other hand, one gentleman shared his story. He shared that he was not a good man. Then he met a girl. She was very kind and loving and she always helped him. When he met her, he wanted to be a good man every day and he became one. Her honesty made him honest. Her kindness made him kind. Her love made him loving. She brought out the best version of him which he never knew existed in him.
We all have both dark and good sides. All the time both the things are surviving. We were given this to have a complete experience so that we can choose light over darkness. We cannot say that he had bad in him that’s why he became bad. We all have that. But why we have to become a reason for bringing out the darkness in someone. We shall be the reason for light. So help people in becoming better, not worse.
Be kind, be loving and they will be. Be nice and be honest and they will be too.
