Once I was sitting with a client who is very depressed in life and said that he did not want to live any more or he he did not know why even he is doing what he is doing. I told him because you have lost the purpose of life and he said do not talk to me about the bookish language that find your purpose etc and he said you cannot help me. After few days when he realised that actually if he has a purpose he would not question, he came back. In another incidences I met two ladies, both of them are widows and children are settled abroad. One is always with smile and one is regretting living. She said that so many times she does not even feel like getting up from bed and she always asks herself that why does she even have to see the day light. The other one who is smiling always has similar life style but is always full of life as she knows, when she gets up she has to go and teach kids. Now she does not charge for teaching these kids. But when she gets up she knows why she is getting up. We all go through lots of pains in life and suffering is reduced when we know the purpose of that pain or else we would keep suffering. A mother is in huge pain while giving birth to the child but she is happy as knows why she is doing so. Same way is life..we keep giving birth to life every moment and when we know why we are giving that birth, we feel happy and do not suffer which is our purpose and if we dont know why we are going through the pain of life we keep suffering from the pain of giving birth to the child. So find your purpose so that you would know why life is happening to you. If having pain is inevitable in life even having purpose is its as inevitable as breathing or else you would feel you have wasted your breaths.
